Uthola ukuthi wena ukungabi nasikhala ukubeka konke ekhabetheni lakho, kusuka ekhishini kuya endlini yangasese. Kuthiwani ukube bekuyindaba nje ye- inhlangano? Yazi ukuthi ngemibono ehlakaniphile nangezenezelwe ezimbalwa, kungenzeka ukuhlola isikhala esitholakalayo.
Setha iminyango yamakhabethe okugcina
Izinto ezincane zivame ukusakazeka kumakhabethe. Ngokwenziwa kwe- amashalofu amancane kufenisha, umnyango, izimonyo endlini yokugezela, izindiza noma okokuxubha ikhishi, ukuthola indawo efanelekayo ngosayizi wabo ngaleyo ndlela bagweme ukudideka abakuhlwanyela ngaphakathi.
Amashalofu ahlukanisiwe
Ingabe ukuphakama kwe- amashalofu ekhabethe ekhishini kuphakeme kakhulu maqondana nosayizi nobungako bezitsha ezigciniwe? Cabanga ngokuhlakanipha ngokufakwa. Ungafaka iqoqo lezingilazi, iketela noma into yokupheka endaweni efanayo nezitsha, noma-ke, ungalahli noma yiliphi isentimitha lesikwele.
Hlukanisa konke onakho
Lesi sifo asinampilo, ngoba ikhanda esikhundleni senzuzo ku- indawo yokubeka, uyehlulwa. Kodwa-ke, lapho kunqwabelana izinto eziningana ezahlukahlukene, lokhu kwenzeka kaningi ... okungenani ukwamukela indlela ye- «compartmentalize konke»Ngamabhokisi noma amagumbi okugcina lapho ingaphakathi lefenisha ihlukaniswe khona, ukuze yonke into ibe nendawo yayo.
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