Wake wazibuza ukuthi kungaba wusizo ukulandela imithetho ye ukwelashwa kombala Lapho ubhekene nenkinga yokukhetha umbala wosofa? Yebo, siyazi ukuthi umhlophe uyakwazi ukwelula ukuthula, ukucabanga, kanye nokuhlinzeka ngomqondo omkhulu wobubanzi.
Ubani ongayifuni ku ukuhlobisa ikhaya? Okuwukuphela kwephutha elikhulu ukuthi umbala olula kakhulu, obeka engcupheni yokungcola ngokushesha, ikakhulukazi uma kunezingane nentsha endlini.
Amathoni amnyama? Zinomphumela wokulinganisela umkhuba futhi kwenze kube "nokuhleleka" ngokwengeziwe. Imibala ekhanyayo, enokumhlophe okuncane, isenemiphumela enenzuzo kwi-psyche, kanye nokwenza igumbi elincane elisuka ekubukeni likhulu.
Imigqa? Ukugwema kokubili okuvundlile nokuqondile. Owokuqala unikeza i- ukubukeka kokujula, kepha ithinta amehlo akhathele, okwesibili ivumela ukuphakama okukhulu, kepha kugcina kuyisicefe ngemuva kokuba nalo mhlobiso isikhashana.