Ukuba ungomnye wabo bantu bahlala behlala kwisiphithiphithi phantse ngaphandle kokuqonda, ngaphandle kokuzama beka ucwangco ebomini bakho, inokuba lixesha lokuba uqaphele indlela ebikhe yenguqu kwilizwe jikelele, ngokulula kwayo kwaye kuba sonke singayilandela ekhaya ukuya kwileta ukufezekisa ucwangco olupheleleyo.
La UmJapan uMarie Kondo Nguye osemva kwale ndlela yeKonmari, kwaye ukhuphe incwadi ethi 'Umlingo wocwangco', apho echaza indlela yokwenza lo myalelo kunye nezibonelelo zawo kubomi bethu ngokubanzi. Eli bhinqa laseJapan liqale ngokucoca iingubo zosapho luphela kwaye into eyithandayo yayingumsebenzi wakhe. Namhlanje ucebisa abantu abaninzi abafuna ukubeka ubomi babo ngendlela.
Yintoni ekwenza wonwabe
Esinye sezakhiwo eziphambili zale ndlela yile hlala kuphela kwinto oziva wonwabile ngayo. Oko kukuthi, ngamanye amaxesha sigcina izinto ngenjongo, kuba xa sisekhaya okanye xa silala kuba zizinto esingasazithandiyo njengangaphambili. Kungenxa yokuba baphume ngohlobo okanye ngenxa yokuba badala. Ke siqokelela izinto ezininzi esizincamayo ngenxa yeemeko kodwa ezingasazisi ulonwabo njengangaphambili. Yiyo loo nto kufuneka siqokelele yonke into esinayo kwaye sizibuze nganye nganye, ukuba loo nto, isinxibo okanye into iyasonwabisa okanye iluncedo kuthi namhlanje. Ukuba impendulo nguhayi, kufuneka uyiyeke kwimfumba ukuze ulahle okanye uphe ngaphandle kokuzisola.
Qala ngokulula
Kule ndlela asizukufumana iodolo kuphela xa sigcina izinto, kodwa naxa ulahla into esingayifuniyo. Uthi qala ngeyona ilula. Ngokufanelekileyo, yeempahla, kwaye uqhubeke ngezinto kwaye apho unokufumana ukuthandabuza okungakumbi, kwaye ekugqibeleni izinto ezinexabiso lemvakalelo, ezinjengeefoto okanye iinkumbulo. Ukuqala ngendlela elula, siya kuqhelana nombono wendlela yokwahlulahlula izinto esizenzayo nesingazifuniyo. Ke kuya kuba lula kuthi ukuba ekugqibeleni siyenze ngeyona mvakalelo. Ukulahla kuyakufuneka senze amaqela ezinto kwaye sijonge kuyo yonke into esinayo yokugcina kunye nento esingayigciniyo. Kuyabonakala ukuba, ngokutsho kombhali wencwadi, ukuba siyenza ngokuchanekileyo, ekugqibeleni kufanele ukuba sibe nesithathu sezinto ebesinazo.
Hlela ngokweendidi
Iindidi ziyinto yonke xa kuziwa kuku-odolwa. Ukuba sifuna ukwazi uku-odola yonke into, kufuneka sishiye imibala okanye iindawo kwaye Hlela ngokweendidi, ukuze yonke into ifumaneke lula. Kungenxa yokuba ubuchopho bethu buhlela yonke into ngokwamacandelo kwaye kuya kuba lula kuthi ukuba nemephu yengqondo yecandelo kunokuhlela umzekelo ngemibala kwaye sifumane ihempe epinki embindini wombala opinki. Kodwa ukuba sinazo ihempe ngokwahlukeneyo, siza kuyibona irose ngoko nangoko.
U-odola nini kwaye njani
I-odolo yaseJapan isixelela elona xesha lililo loku-odola ekuseni, kuba iingqondo zethu zicace gca kwiingxaki, ukuze sicace gca malunga noko sifuna ukukugcina. Kufuneka sithathe yonke into esinayo siyibeke ngokwamaqela ngokwamacandelo ukuze siqale ngohlelo. Emva koko kuya kufuneka si-odole oko sishiyekileyo kwaye sahlukane nento esingayifuniyo.
Ukuma nkqo
Phakathi kwendawo yombhali sisiseko sokuba ulungiselelo oluthe nkqo lunenzuzo ngakumbi. Ukuba siyala izinto ngokuthe nkqo Siza kusebenzisa indawo enkulu ngakumbi, ukuze sibenendawo enkulu kakhulu kwezo zinto sizishiyileyo.
Kuphephe ingxolo kwindawo yokugcina
Namhlanje kukho zonke iintlobo zezinto kunye nodidi lokugcina. Sithenga iidrowa ezininzi, ukwahlulahlula kunye nokuhlela ukuba endaweni yokwenza izinto zibe lula kuthi, zivelisa ingxolo eninzi kuseti, ngenxa yoko ekugqibeleni asinamva wolungelelwano. Kufuneka thintela ukubiza yonke into, kwaye kungcono ukhethe ezona ndlela zilula zokugcina, ezinjengeebhokisi kunye needrowa.
Indawo yayo yonke into
Sisoloko sinyanzelekile yabela indawo kwinto nganye. Siza kuba nayo yonke into ehlelwe ngokwamacandelo, kuphela into esiyisebenzisayo, kwaye kufuneka siyinike indawo ethile, ukuze sikwazi uku-odola yonke into ngokulula. Ke siyakuhlala siyazi ukuba sibeka phi yonke into kwaye asizukushiya izinto zichithakele okanye zingenandawo ithile, nto leyo edala ukungaqiniseki malunga nokuba igcinwe phi kwaye apho isiphithiphithi siqala khona, kuba asisenandawo yayo yonke into. Ukuba ngokwengqondo sinendawo yento encinci nganye, iodolo iya kuhlala iphantse ibe yodwa, kuba siya kuhlala sazi phantse ngokungazi ukuba yeyiphi na into.