Ixesha elibandayo liza, kwaye ukuba kukho imvakalelo ebusika, kuya kuba shushu kwaye kamnandi ekhaya ngelixa kunetha okanye kuyakhithika ngaphandle. Ukunyusa ngakumbi le mvakalelo yokufudumala sinento esisiseko, i itshimini.
Omnye eziko kuzisa ubushushu obuninzi kwisithuba, nokuba asivulelwanga, njengoko sineso sithando sothando nesekhaya elinamakhaya amaninzi. Nangona bekukho amaxesha apho beziphelelwe lixesha, namhlanje ziphinde zaqwalaselwa njengenkcukacha zexesha elidlulileyo, iidiliya kwaye zinamandla xa kuthelekiswa nezona ndlela zangoku zokunika ubushushu endlwini, ezinje ngemitha yombane.
Ngeli xesha siza kubona izimvo ezimbalwa eziza kusikhuthaza ukuba sibe nazo amagumbi okulala anendawo yomlilo. Akukho mfanekiso wothando ungaphezulu kwalowo wegumbi lokulala kunye nomlilo okhanyise eziko kunye nokubonelela ngobushushu. Ukongeza, le nto inokwenziwa ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ayifanelekanga kuphela kumakhaya akudala, njengoko abantu abaninzi banokucinga.
Los iimeko zesitayile se-rustic ngokuqinisekileyo zezona zifanelekileyo ukubeka le nto. Umthi oxutywe namatye, yeyona ndlela irustic yokwenza, yindibaniselwano egqibeleleyo. Iithoni kwigumbi lokulala kufuneka zifudumale, ukulwa nokubanda kwelitye.
Los amagumbi okulala angoku bakwanethuba lokongeza indawo yomlilo entle. Oku kufuneka kwenziwe ngendlela enobulumko, enemigca ethe ngqo nelula. Ingumbono ogqibeleleyo, ngakumbi ukuba kwigumbi lokulala sinemigca ethe ngqo okanye ukubumba, okuya kutshata ngokugqibeleleyo ngeenkcukacha zeli nqaku. Oku kubonisa ukuba kukho uhlobo lomlilo kwigumbi lokulala ngalinye, kuya kufuneka uyazi ukuba ungayikhetha njani ukuze idibane nokusingqongileyo.