Xa usana lufika kusapho, ikhaya kufuneka lihlale lilungiselelwe eli lungu litsha, eliza kufuna inkathalo enkulu lakuba nje lifikile. Siya kuthi lungelelanisa ezinye iindawo zendlu zempilo, ukulala, ukuzonwabisa kunye nokondla abantwana.
Ngayiphi na imeko, kubalulekile ukucacisa ukuba izinto ezininzi ziya kuba zezethutyana kwaye kufuneka siqiniseke ukuba umntwana uya kukhula ngokukhawuleza kunokuba sicinga. Kwakhona kubalulekile isigqibo sokuba loluphi uhlobo lwendawo oluza kwenzelwa usana, kuba nangona singacingi njalo ngaphambi kokuba azalwe, kunokwenzeka ukuba alale kwigumbi lomtshato ukuya kuthi ga kwiinyanga ezintandathu.
El ifanitshala yegumbi labantwana mayingabi namlilo kwaye inemiphetho ejikelezileyo, ngokukhethekileyo ube ifenitshala ngeenkuni njengokuba zinjalo ifenitshala eqinileyo neyomeleleyo ngaphandle kokuba yinto enochuku yokuba buthathaka.
Malunga nemeko ye- ukuzalwa, kubalulekile ukuba kunokwenzeka, ukuyibeka endaweni yegumbi endifumene ukukhanya kakhulu kuyo, nangona ingekho ecaleni kwefestile. Inkqubo ye- Isifuba sedrowa sinokusebenza njengetafile eguqukayo ukuba sibeka ukhuko olungangeni manzi efanelekileyo phezulu. Kuyacetyiswa ukuba ubeke isitulo esithusayo sokuncancisa kunye nokuzala kamnandi umntwana.
