Akufani ukuhlobisa ikamelo elilodwa kunegumbi eliphindwe kabili ngoba ekugcineni ukuthanda okuhlobisa kwabantu ababili abazokwabelana ngalelo gumbi kufanele kubhekwe. Kungakho kubalulekile ukudala isikhala esihle futhi esikahle kubo bobabili abantu..
Ngezeluleko ezilandelayo ngeke ube nezinkinga lapho uhlobisa igumbi elimbili.
Imibala engathathi hlangothi njenge grey ekhanyayo, beige noma mhlophe yiwona okufanele unqobe ekamelweni elikabili. Le mibala isiza ukwakha indawo emnandi nezolile lapho ungaphumula kahle khona ngemuva kosuku olude lomsebenzi. Mayelana nombhede kufanele ubanzi futhi unethezeke ukuze bobabili abashadile bakwazi ukulala ngaphandle kwezinkinga. Ungakhohlwa ngamatafula asembhedeni wombhede njengoba elungele ukushiya izinto ezahlukahlukene nezinto zangasese.
Ikhabethe kufanele likhulu ngokwanele ukuze abashadayo bakwazi ukugcina izingubo zabo ngendlela ehlelekile nehlelekile. Isitayela sokuhlobisa kufanele sifune izinto ezilula ngoba igumbi elimbili liyindawo endlini eyenzelwe ukuphumula. Lapho ukhetha ukukhanyisa, kufanele kube okuthambile futhi kuphumule ukudala umoya omnandi kulo lonke igumbi elikabili. Ngaphandle kwesibani esikhulu, awukwazi ukuphuthelwa ukukhanyisa okuzungeze umbhede okusiza ukukhulula imvelo.
Mayelana nodaba lwezindwangu ezifana nesambatho sombhede noma amakhethini, kufanele ugweme ukuphrinta futhi ukhethe imibala engathathi hlangothi ehlangana nakho konke ukuhlobisa kwegumbi. Uhlobo lombhede luzokusiza ukhethe usayizi nenombolo yamakhushini okufanele uwabeka ngaphezulu kwawo.