Ukuqala impilo nomunye umuntu kusho ukulungisa ikhaya lababili, futhi amanye amagumbi azokwabiwa, njengegumbi lokulala elikabili. Ukuhlobisa leli gumbi lokulala kusho ukucabangela okuthandwa abantu, nokucabanga ngayo yonke imininingwane ukuze abantu ababili bazizwe bekhululeke ngokuphelele endaweni efanayo.
Kokubili ifenisha kanye nesitayela, ukukhanyisa noma ukugcina okungeziwe kuzoba kubaluleke kakhulu lapho kuhlobiswa isikhala, ngakho-ke kuzofanele kubhekwe. Ngaphezu kwalokho, iqiniso lokuthi kufanele sanelise ukuthanda kwabantu ababili lizosenza sikhethe izindawo ezingathathi hlangothi nezilula ezikhathini eziningi, ezithandwa yiwo wonke umuntu, noma imininingwane yomuntu uqobo ingahlala ingezwa.
Isinyathelo sokuqala kuzoba khetha umbhede ofanele, enesikhala esanele ukuze nobabili nizizwe nikhululekile futhi izingxabano zingaveli. Kumele sithole isisombululo esihle kakhulu ngosayizi, futhi lokho kuvumelana nendawo esinayo. Isitayela singahlukahluka, yize ukuthinta okudala, okwevini noma okwe-rustic kungumbono omuhle ovame ukudala izikhala ezingathathi hlangothi, ezilungele ukuthanda wonke umuntu.
En ngokuqondene namathoniSingakhetha futhi nabangathathi hlangothi ngokwengeziwe, abanemibala e-beige futhi efudumele njengombala onsundu noma owolintshi, okwakha umoya othokomele, futhi basebenzise isisekelo esimhlophe, esibe semfashinini futhi. Imifino, okubomvu noma okuluhlaza kungangezwa, kufaka phakathi ukuthandwa kwakho kokubili ukuthinta okwenziwe ngezifiso. Uma kungamathoni aqinile, angafakwa kuphela kweminye imininingwane.
El isitoreji sizobaluleka, ngoba bangabantu ababili. Ngasohlangothini ngalunye lombhede, ngamunye kufanele abe netafula lakhe elincane, alenze ngezifiso ngesibani noma imininingwane ayifunayo. Ikhabethe ngenye indlela okufanele isebenze, kepha futhi ungangeza abagqoki, noma umbhede onendawo yokugcina ngaphansi ukuze usebenzise sonke isikhala esikhona.