Umbono wokuqala esiwutholayo wendlu lapho singena kuwo usinikeza umhlobiso wehholo lakho. Izikhathi eziningi asikuniki ukubaluleka okuyifanele ngenkathi uyihlobisa, kepha kufanele sazi ukuthi ukuqala kwendlu ngakho-ke, kufanele kube ukubikezela isitayela sendlu yonke.
Ngenxa yalokho kulo mbono, umbala wezindonga kufanele ube munye noma uhambisane nendlu yonke. Esikhundleni salokho, yebo singakwazi dlala ngezinto zokuhlobisa, njengemidwebo noma izibuko, okuzoba yizo ezizonikeza umoya okhethekile ekuhlobiseni. Inketho enhle ukuthi siphendukela kufayela le- itafula elincane elixhunywe odongeni, ezoba nomsebenzi ophindwe kabili osebenzayo nowokuhlobisa.
Kungcono ukhethe ukusebenzisa amathoni angathathi hlangothi, ahlinzeka ngesimo sokuphumula emnyango wendlu, futhi okungabangeli ukwenqatshwa, yize kufanele futhi sikhumbule ukuthi amathoni amnyama angahle aphelele ukugwema ukungcola okujwayelekile komnyango wendlu.
Ekugcineni, ngeke siyeke ukuncoma lokho sebenzisa kahle isikhala - kuyadingeka emafulethini amancane anamuhla - nokuthi ufaka ifenisha encane noma ikhabethe elijwayela indawo onayo ehholo lakho ukuze ukwazi ukugcina izikhwama namajazi. Kungaba umqondo omuhle uthathe isinqumo ngefenisha eyenziwe ngezifiso, eqinisekisa ukwengeza isikhala futhi, ngasikhathi sinye, bagwema ukungaphatheki kahle okujwayelekile kwamakhona noma emaphethelweni angahambelani.
