Abantwana abancinci ziingcali zokulandela umkhondo, bayathanda ukukhwela macala onke endlu, banomdla ngokwendalo yiyo loo nto bechukumisa baphonononge konke abanako. Kodwa oku kuyakwenza ukuba babe sengozini kuninzi lweengozi ezikhoyo kuwo onke amakhaya kuluntu lwethu namhlanje. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukugcina abantwana bekhuselekile kwiingozi zekhaya.
Luxanduva lwabazali ukukhusela ukuba abantwana abancinci abakho kulo naluphi na uhlobo lwengozi ekhaya. Ukubashiya nenkululeko yokuphanda ekhaya kodwa ngaphandle kokuchaza ukuba kufuneka babhencwe kuyo nayiphi na ingozi. Namhlanje ndifuna ukukunika iingcebiso ukuze abantwana bakhuseleke kuyo nayiphi na ingozi ekhaya.
Kuya kufuneka ulumke ngakumbi iimveliso eziyityhefu onokuba nawo umzekelo phantsi kwesinki, abantwana banethuba elininzi lokuvula iingcango kwaye bazifumane. Kungenxa yoko le nto kuya kufuneka ufumane enye indawo onokuyigcina kuyo okanye ubeke iqhaga kwikhabhathi ukuthintela abantwana ekuthatheni iimveliso.
Xa usekhitshini (kwaye xa ungekho, nawe) kuyakufuneka ujike zonke izibambo zeembiza neepani ngaphakathi ukunqanda abantwana ekuzichongeni okanye ekuweni kuzo. Lumka kakhulu ngerhasi kunye naluphi na uhlobo lwesixhobo, andazi ukuba benza njani kodwa bafunda ukuyivula kumcimbi wamaxesha ambalwa xa beyichukumisa.
Iimagnethi kwifriji asiyongcamango ilungileyo kuba ukuba bayawa emhlabeni banokuba nomtsalane kakhulu ukuba umntwana wakho abeke emlonyeni wakhe, into eyingozi kakhulu enokubangela ukufuthaniseka.
Ungaze ube nekhabhathi yamayeza enokufikelelwa ngabancinci, kwaye ungawathathi amayeza phambi kwabo, banokucinga ukuba ziilekese.
Kwishower ungaze ushiye iimveliso zempilo, okanye iincakuba, okanye uchebe amagwebu okanye nantoni na enokusika okanye ibe yityhefu kufikelela ebantwaneni. Ukongeza, ucango lwangasese kufuneka luhlale lukwazi ukuvulwa ngaphandle ukuze umntwana akwazi ukuluvala ngaphakathi.
Ewe, beka abakhuseli kuzo zonke iziseko zendlu nakwiikona ezibukhali zefanitshala.
Yintoni enye ocinga ukuba kufuneka ithathelwe ingqalelo babe nabantwana sikhuselekile kwiingozi zekhaya?